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Over coming subconcious limiting beliefs

Smarky

20-05-2005 06:58:37

Hey,

I have some limiting belifes about myself that say "I can't do it", "I'm not good enough etc" these surface sometimes outright and other times I belive my subconcious is directing me under these belifes, causing me to avoid things, feel tired, feel confused etc. I think my subconcious is working as to protect me as it has the belife that it's not worth it to try on certain things and if i just try I will get hurt and fail.

Sometimes i'm concious of the the fact, other times it takes me a moment to realize what is happening.

What would Wayne teach and say to do?

Mr. Scott

27-05-2005 13:39:51

I've read a lot of your posts and I really appreciate how you arent afraid to ask questions. So many good posts have come from questions you've asked and I like people that stir the pot. OK, on with the responding thing... One thing that Iíve done that seems to help me is to look at whatís interfering with my ability to get where I want to go and see if itís real or not. Odds are it probably isnít, but I imagine you already know that -- and while the fact that you're being held up by something that isnt real may seem like a bad thing, its not. Actually that should fill you with the energy of ENTHUSIASM knowing that what you want isnít far away at all -- itís just on the other side of some imaginary wall that you created. And knowing that the obstacle isnít real and you can move right through it should make you giddy! Just see yourself on the other side of the obstable and choose to make it a part of your past. Now cultivate enthusiasm and use Dyers faces of intention to keep yourself on track, use Ďem like those bumper things you see at a bowling alley that keep you from getting a gutterball; and move along (uh, with enthusiasm) knowing that what you want is going manifest. Yikes, what an analogy... (yeah, the secret eighth face of intention is Be Hilarity itís what you are destined to be - just feel it!...) But really, there is a lot of energy in enthusiasm so cultivating it is good for countless reasons, plus its contagious. I think its the Greek word for "the God inside" or something like that, and if its our intent to be like the force that created us then I'd say entusiasm is a pretty feeling to be in tune with. lol

I have to rant on one thing though -- "What would Wayne do"? Um , who cares? He's just a dude thatís consolidated a lot of really good ideas, but not somebody to follow or worship, and his word isnít gospel. I wouldnít worry too much about what wayne would do. There is definite wisdom in wayne's words, but I think whatís most important are the ideas (and the wisdom behind them) rather then the person delivering the message. A better question might be ďwhat would I do if my ego wasnít doing so much back seat driving?Ē Probably shooing the ladies off with a broom, but thatís another story...
Rock on Smarky.
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Smarky

27-05-2005 15:20:09

Thanks, i've just always been curious I guess and I really want answers, I know others have such and also can provide me with advice that helps me find it on my own.

I only asked what what Would wayne do as I meant what kinda thing would he suggest, I always liked his advice on the radio show.

Mr. Scott

27-05-2005 16:01:46

Hey Smarky,

I didnt really mean that directed at you specifially, but anybody who puts wayne on some unattainable pedestal, which I've seen before on this board. I guess that was my dick side coming out, but I grew up around a lot of highly judgemental bible beaters so I have a hair trigger when it comes to stuff like that. So please, ignore my idiotic smarta** comment. Sorry about that. I tell you what, its friday, so I'll buy you a beer and drink it for you...

But what I love about this board is how people have taken ideas like Wayniac's and expanded on them and put them in a forum where like minded people can see them and learn from them. Thats a really good thing. And it seems to me like most people put the time in to make good posts because they respect each other and the forum, another really good thing. I hope that by responding that maybe somebody out there will think "Ahhh, I know where he's coming from!" just like I have on other people's posts.

Ron

20-06-2005 18:51:58

You stated "I have some limiting belifes about myself that say "I can't do it", "I'm not good enough etc" these surface sometimes outright and other times I belive my subconcious is directing me under these belifes, causing me to avoid things, feel tired, feel confused etc. I think my subconcious is working as to protect me as it has the belife that it's not worth it to try on certain things and if i just try I will get hurt and fail."

Response Me thinks you think too much. Are you aware that there is never a problem presented to you that the answer is not also given. Are you also aware that impossible is an adjective for the ego - not in God's vocabulary at all. What you stated is victimization - brought upon by you alone - as ego - and as far as ego is concerned, you are in your right and perfect place. Everything is a thought - and we have the power to think those thoughts - so we must also have the power to change those thoughts. Instead of having a party of one, change you mind and open your heart to all.

Namaste - Ron