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Husband going somewhere else

Mamagik

04-08-2005 21:59:40

Hi, I have posted this in another forum, but I am desperate for some help
I am in the process of manifesting a home and growing a busines
My husband just finished a course so he can start his own business in a new field. While we are in the process of making it big, he took a job in his original profession so we can make ends meet and have benefits.
NOW HE HAS IT IN HIS HEAD TO MOVE TO ANOTHER STATE ! o shock
Could his focus hinder my process of manifesting?
This isn't the first time that he's gone off on a tangent and I'm wondering if this is keeping us stuck in a place that neither of us wants He keeps bouncing his energy all over creation and I'm fed up with having less than
Yup, I'm frustrated and scared that I'll never realize my dreams
Please help me
Blessings, Mamagik

majelmarly

05-08-2005 22:00:16

I understand your point but I'm more like your husband. I always begin new things and want it to be so perfect that I begin and take care and verify, and end up not finishing or achieving anything.
Some people are unconsciously afraid of the impacts successes will have on their life.
What I found fantastic is that you keep the idea of manifesting and realizing your dreams... To someone like me, your problem gives me great hope.
You are 2. That's what is great. So you can help your husband staying focused and not changing all the time... Plus, the power and energy of 2 people loving each other is alreaydy something great! I won't say oh! everything will be fine...
But I know that everything has meaning and often realize that, even finding myself a failure, I'm not on earth only for material successes. As Mother Teresa said It's not between you and the world; it's between you and God.
There are many levels of successes. To me, you're a success, with your willpower, your ambition, your taste for life and your ability to take care and your will to resolve things... JUST YOUR LOVE AND APPRECIATION OF LIFE ...I FIND WONDERFUL...
BECAUSE, YOU KNOW JUST BEING ON EARTH IN 2005 AND NOT BECOMING INSANE OR VIOLENT... JUST HAVING THE KIND KIND OF FRUSTRATIONS WE KEEP...
THINK, HOW GREATNESS (spiritually) WE'LL ALREADY ACHIEVED

lifeauthentik

07-08-2005 12:36:08

Hi Mamagik

I fully understand how this may seem frustrating to you and that this can result in some of the lower energies, fear for instance. Focusing on this will only give you more of what you donít want. And yes this could hinder your process of manifesting because you are giving this experience power by initially moving your energies from your goal to that of your husbands.

I also understand how excited your husband must be in a new adventure and perhaps feel that he is being called to it. He must do what he deems necessary in order to become the person he needs to be.

Ultimately you are the navigator of your own life and must take responsibility for it. Others can influence our behavior however in the end it is between you and your source and Iím sure that you will find your own solution within your own heart because this is where source (which I call God) resides.

All the very best
Dan )