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Dyer's Forward In The Abraham-Hicks Book

GreatKingRat

15-07-2005 13:21:42

Okay, so I just got the Abraham-Hicks book "Ask and It Is Given." Wayne did the foreword to it, so by mentioning that, this dicussion of the book falls into the Dyer-related field! lol

Anyways, it is a book all about intention, source, vibration, emotion etc...a lot of the things Wayne writes and talks about.

So far, it is a really good read, but I have a question to anyone who practices this belief/manifestation stuff.

How do you force yourself out of the bad or negative thoughts? I am two months away from having a finalized divorce, my job is not satisfying, money is tight yadda yadda yadda.

I really believe in the power of belief and the law of attraction, but worry that my focusing on what is missing is negating all the time I am focusing on what I desire. I try and try and try not to focus on what is missing and instead focus on what I want to have arrive, but sometimes it is hard when things are staring you right in the face, i.e. bills, needed repairs, upcoming expenses, no romantic involvement.

How does one combat the "wrong" thoughts?

onelovecandy

16-07-2005 11:42:12

If you listen to the 6 cd set from Wayne on pbs called the secrets of the power of intention there are allot of instuctions regarding staying positive. One of them is just to keep telling yourself I WANT TO FEEL GOOD. When the negative comes just block it by repeating over and over and over and over I WANT TO FEEL GOOD. Fake it till you make it.

Trust me it works. It has worked for me.

One Love

loladucks

18-07-2005 20:19:34

When negative thoughts kick in I say one or all of the following

"Cancel", "Cancel"- stops the flow of that thought.

"Stop!"-Sometimes saying it several times, jerks me back to refocus on positive thoughts. Thoughts are magnets. Negitive thoughts attract more negative thoughts & feelings and positive thoughts attract, well you get the idea.

"Up until now" Up until now this is how I thought but now I choose this new thought.

For me it is not about stopping the negative chatter, but a rechanneling of nipping it in the bud and mowing it over with positive chatter.

I do what Abraham and Wayne sugjest and that is to work from the end.

I FEEL GOOD, I AM AT PEACE, I AM PROSPEROUS, I LOVE MY LIFE, I HAVE WONDERFUL FRIENDS, I'M IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP, MY BOSS APPRECIATES ME, MY DAY WILL BE EASY & EFFORTLESS, I WILL ENJOY EACH TASK AS IT IS PRESENTED TO ME, I WILL SLEEP WELL AND WAKE UP REFRESHED, LIFE IS GOOD AND I AM HAPPY. SO FORTH AND SO ON.

Yes Indeed, fake it till you make it!

The other day I dropped something very heavy on my foot. My first responce was not pretty. Instead of focusing on the extreme pain that I was in fact feeling, I quickly refocused on this toy monkey that was next to me and I started just saying over and over, "that monkey is funny". And to my surprize the pain vanished quickly. I learned something myself in that moment. Our thoughts really are magnets, I could have attracted more pain, but by refocusing I attracted lack of pain.

The Hicks offer a starter set of 5 CD's that will so get you going with all this. If you can get past the channleing part and just focus on the message. It's better then the book at giving direction, if you ask me.

All the best is yours and mine! Peace, Lola

GreatKingRat

18-07-2005 21:40:27

Lola,

Your paragraphs are beautiful.

Thanks for the message.


Kirk,

AKA GreatKingRat